Munches:
"Do You
Belong at a Munch?"
The first
thing to do if you're not sure is to check your age: if you are under 18,
you do not belong at a munch. For that matter, you don't belong here,
reading this page. Please, leave.
Likewise,
if you are over 18 but have kids, please arrange a sitter for them -- small
children take a lot of work to keep quiet and happy, and older children
would likely put a damper on the conversation (if you're completely open
with your kids at home, that's great -- but other people may feel inhibited
no matter what you say).
"Are
New people really welcome?"
People sometimes
express concern about joining us, worrying that everyone will already know
everyone else, and that they'll be conspicuous, especially if they are
new to BDSM. Please, don't worry about being a newbie - - -
we get everything
from college-aged kids to people in their sixties, from people who are
in the fantasy stage to peoplewho are lifestylers, marrieds and singles,
from people who mostly do D/s with one partner to people who do heavy S&M
with multiple partners. We get people at all points on the straight, bi,
gay, Tops, switchs, bottom and other spectra.
There are
usually a few new people at any given munch.So we won't all be staring
over at you and remarking on the fact that you're fresh meat.
Munches are
actually designed for newbies. The philosophy behind them is to create
a safe place for people who are interested in BDSM, but a bit worried about
meeting kinky twisted perverts, while at the same time providing a social
outlet for people who are comfortable being out. People are encouraged
to ask questions if they have them -- there are usually enough people at
the table to give good safety advice on even obscure activities.
"What happens at a munch?"
Pretty much
what you'd expect when a bunch of kinky people get together. We talk about
the philosophy of whatever it is that we do, how-to tips, shopping tips,
information about local events, chocolate, who makes good floggers,
where to buy crops, who is having a party, BDSM safety..... but most
of the time... we talk about a lot of nothing... *smile* People sit around
at tables chatting, and some people order food and or drinks.
"Where are we?"
For
location and directions to the London munch.. send email to
dark@darkangellair.com
or to mlixil@hotmail.com
We meet
the THIRD Tuesday of each month.
 
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